What better time to explore the idea of unconditional love than Mother’s Day. It never occurred to me that my mother’s love was unconditional until my first year of college. Sorry mom, bet you wished I’d have realized that one a bit earlier. That eighteenth year of life was one of intense heartbreaks and heartaches. The boy (yes b-o-y) I’d vowed to love forever had ditched me for another girl (and yes, I was a g-i-r-l too), I’d managed to fall in love with three other people, only one of which actually loved me back, so I of course promptly messed that up, too. Angst at its very best (or worst?).
Going home that year for Christmas break, I felt unlovable. But there she was, my mom, one of the only people who loved me not only in spite of all my shortcomings, but because of them. She was someone who listened endlessly to all my problems, empathized with her whole heart, and made me realize that I was indeed lovable, and loved unconditionally. The word unconditional is such a powerful word, in fact it is amazingly empowering to know that someone loves you unconditionally. So thanks mom, for loving me so effortlessly.
Love is: unconditional.